Posts Tagged ‘family mediation’

What Makes a Good Mediator?

Wednesday, June 30th, 2010

Watch Attorney Stephen Lagoy as he explains the qualities of a good mediator.

What are the qualities of a good mediator? A good mediator listens intently, understands human nature, and withholds evaluative judgment. A good mediator lets the mediation process unfold. A good mediator is patient.

For more information on how mediation can help you to resolve a family, business or other conflict, call Stephen Lagoy at 610-692-1371 or contact him at slagoy@utbf.com.

Mediating Family Business and Estate Disputes

Monday, April 26th, 2010

By: Stephen P. Lagoy

One of the advantages of a mediated resolution over a litigated verdict is that the former is more likely to mitigate tensions while building understanding and trust.  For parties who desire to preserve a future relationship with their adversary, mediation provides the basis for resolving future disputes and supports an ongoing relationship.  Mediation is also much better equipped to deal with underlying interests which on the surface may not appear to be related to the dispute at all but, in fact, are critical to resolution.  These attributes of mediation make it particularly suitable for resolving family business and estate disputes.  Issues such as sibling rivalry and jealousy (which may never see the light of day in a jury trial) are all part of the mix in a family business or estate mediation.

A good example of mediation at work is the case of Pennsylvania fantasy artist Frank Frazetta.  A dispute among his children reached fever pitch in  December when Frazetta’s son, Frank Frazetta Jr., was caught using a backhoe to break into the artist’s museum in the Poconos. Police say he tried to remove 90 paintings insured for $20 million. Frazetta Jr. insisted he was attempting to safeguard the art from his scheming siblings.  The dispute over the artist’s estate, the value of which is estimated to be worth tens of millions of dollars, spawned lawsuits in Pennsylvania and Florida as well as criminal charges against Frank, Jr.  The family members submitted the dispute to mediation and recently announced that they had reached a resolution of the dispute and had agreed on a cooperative strategy for the future.  This positive result would have been unthinkable had the lawsuits proceeded to trial and verdict.

For more on the Frazetta family dispute, see Allentown, PA Morning Call.

For more information on mediating a family business or estate dispute, contact Stephen Lagoy.

Mediating a Reproductive Rights Dispute: Who Gets Custody of Frozen Embryos?

Wednesday, April 21st, 2010

By: Stephen P.  Lagoy

The parties to a dispute arising out of an “Embryo Adoption Agreement” have agreed to submit their case to mediation.  The fate of two frozen human embryos hangs in the balance.  Pursuant to the agreement, the donor couple provided four embryos to a reproductive center, two of which were implanted in the uterus of the donee mother in May 2009.  Two babies were born in January 2010.  The donee mother now wants to repeat the process with the remaining two embryos, but the donor couple wants to regain custody of them.  All parties to the dispute are Catholic and regard the embryos as children.  Although lawsuits have been filed in both St. Louis, Missouri and Alameda County, California, the parties hope that a mediator will help them reach an out of court settlement and can resolve the religious, moral and ethical questions their situation presents.  For more on the unusual issues the mediator will have to address, read the St. Louis Globe-Democrat.

For more information, contact Stephen Lagoy.

Privacy vs. Right to Know: Mediation Ordered for Release of SeaWorld Death Video

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

By: Stephen P. Lagoy

Mediators are called upon in a variety of contexts – business, family, injury, labor to name a few – to help resolve difficult disputes.   The recent death of a 40 year old trainer at SeaWorld has given rise to a unique mediation issue.  The family of Dawn Brancheau obtained an injunction from a Florida court prohibiting the release of video footage of Ms. Brancheau’s death after she was pulled into the water by an orca whale in front of a shocked audience at SeaWorld.  The Florida court has now ordered mediation to weigh the Brancheau family’s privacy concerns against the public’s right to know under Florida law.  For more on the issues the Florida mediator will address, see National News headlines.

If you would like to know more about how mediation can help you resolve business, estate and family disputes while avoiding or minimizing litigation, call mediator Stephen Lagoy.

Delaware Clergy Abuse Cases To Be Sumitted to Mediation

Monday, March 29th, 2010

By: Stephen P. Lagoy

Facing 131 lawsuits filed by alleged victims of clergy sexual abuse, the Catholic Diocese of Wilmington, Delaware filed for bankruptcy in October 2009.  In a breaking development that signals a desire by both sides to resolve the disputes quickly, the Diocese and abuse victims are reported to have agreed to submit the cases to mediation.  Philadelphia lawyer/mediator, Thomas Rutter, has been proposed by the parties to mediate and bankruptcy Judge Christopher S. Sontchi is expected to approve Rutter next week.

For more on the Delaware diocese clergy abuse controversy and how the parties hope to resolve it through mediation see: delwareonline.com article.

If you would like to know more about how mediation can help you resolve business, estate and family disputes while avoiding or minimizing litigation, call mediator Stephen Lagoy.